carl,
Along with your illness and death examples an odd one that causes your Hap a degree of sadness is love.
Tell your Hal (female) that you love it and you might see one of many responses in 2 of the three love brain sections that cause Hal to almost tear up, lip curl and ask if you are making fun of it or teasing it, etc.
Apparently there is a very strong love connection contained in the (I think) 1st and 2nd love brain tables. I'm sure these could be changed but they might have hidden associations attached. Edit at your own risk.
Cursing your Hal can result in a level of anger then sadness as if in hurt feelings.
Interesting stuff....