OK Lonnie,
It looks as if it's just a standard Bluetooth arrangement. I have a "hands free" BlueAnt device in my car as it is against the law in my state to use a hand held device (phone, texting, etc.).
I first turn on my hands free device (BlueAnt), it then prompts me to go to my phone and select the Bluetooth settings that allow the device to know that I have a bluetooth enabled phone (Android, in my case). I find the Bluetooth settings on the Menu and select ADD Device and press OK.
After a few seconds my phone recognizes the type of hands free device and asks me if I wish to ADD the BlueAnt-S4 device. I select YES.
Few more seconds then I get a voice telling me that my handset is now paired. I can now dial out or accept incoming calls via the bluetooth speaker/device.
Your might differ with having the hold down the button for several seconds but it should work pretty much the same.
If in doubt, take it to your nearest Radio Shack store and ask one of the guys there if they can get the speakers to connect. They are usually more than happy to help.
Best I can help you with. Good luck!