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Title: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: lightspeed on December 10, 2010, 07:30:28 pm
i just wanted to let others know on here my mom passed away tonight on the way to the emergency room from the nursing home she was in so i may be off here for a while .  
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: tedathome on December 10, 2010, 07:37:55 pm
Sincere condolences lightspeed to you and your family.
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: Duskrider on December 10, 2010, 07:49:51 pm

Lonnie,
Sorry to hear of your loss.
I pray our Lord will comfort you, Linda and family in this difficult time.
                                                                                 --Jim   (Dusky)
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: Art on December 10, 2010, 08:04:14 pm
Lonnie,

Truly sorry to hear of your mom's passing.
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: NIGE on December 10, 2010, 08:22:48 pm
My condolences to you & your family.
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: markofkane on December 10, 2010, 10:50:33 pm
So very sorry Lightspeed (Lonnie).
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: snowman on December 11, 2010, 01:10:07 am
Oh no, that's horrible.

I'm so sorry for your loss, and I will pray for you and your family also.
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: Will and Mr Data :) :] on December 11, 2010, 05:16:43 am
condolences
from Will and Mr Data
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: GT40 on December 11, 2010, 05:45:17 am

So sorry to hear such a terrible new, especially now. Sad day. Thinking of you and your family.

Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: freddy888 on December 11, 2010, 07:45:47 am
My condolences Lonnie.
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Post by: d_vyn1 on December 11, 2010, 01:01:20 pm
I understand what your going through I lost my mom in January to and it can
be very difficult at times.
I offer my sincere condolences on you loss
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: raybe on December 11, 2010, 05:42:57 pm
Sorry it took so long to respond. Had cable outage.

I am truly sorry about your loss. I to just lost my mom and still trying to figure certain things out. You always have an open ear with me if you like. Just ask even if you need to vent a little. Best thing is to always express your feelings when you need too especially with the people you feel most comfortable with as other family members.

My prayers are with you and your family.

raybe
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: lightspeed on December 11, 2010, 07:10:49 pm
I want to thank everyone for all the kind words i showed it all to my wife . things are hard for me i just feel lost i try to even work on my new brain can only do so much hard to think straight found out my mom will be buried tuesday my brothers daughter finally called to tell us . i actually was told by the nursing home about my mom death instead of my own family.
   it is freezing rain and has been snowing a little here, her service was for a 1 hour visitation this coming tuesday it would take us 4 hours to drive their and then 4 hours back (we really don't have the money for motels) i probably won't go i would rather remember her as i saw her on our last visit in october we stayed in our van for a week in wal mart parking lot to stay and visit her in the nursing home , my brother and his wife that won't let us stay at their house drove past us everyday into wal mart where they work .  and the daughter asked if i wanted to talk to them. i didn't .  even though it is hard for me to work on anything or do anything the brain i redid is still working fine with no blanks and almost at 25 mb's.  i am so glad that i took more pictures of mom and us together last october and thanks to majic jack we have called her for about called her every two days  for 3 or 4 years straight and slept in our van at wal mart to be able to stay and visit her when we could afford to drive down their, so what we shared time with her which is more then most of my family did that was just 15 miles away from the nursing home . i had to tear open the box we had already made out to her and was going to send it the same day we heard she died i had linda put the card that said mother on our christmas tree we had a box of chocolate covered cherries to, she liked those.
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: snowman on December 11, 2010, 11:07:40 pm
I know I can't speak for everyone but I'm pretty sure that I can say this with confidence. You won't go through this alone as long as you have friends here on this forum. I consider you a friend and I feel your grief all the way from Lone Grove, Oklahoma. It breaks my heart, because I can see it is breaking yours.

It'll be ok as long as you have friends and know that we will share allittle of this burden, if only in our prayers.

Your an awesome person Lonnie.
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Post by: Lola on December 12, 2010, 12:10:27 pm
Lightspeed, I just found out about the loss of your Mom and I'm truly saddened by it as I myself experienced the painful loss of my dad some time ago. The passing of our loved ones is a devastating experience to us because we will miss them, but it is an important stage just as birth is, even if we don't truly understand it yet. I already learned that with time, when the pain subsides, the memories of them and the things they taught us continue to be with us to help us go through life and make us smile at times.  Lightspeed, my thoughts are with you and you family and I wish you inner strength during this difficult time.
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: raybe on December 12, 2010, 05:25:19 pm
Dear lightspeed,

Just a token of our sympathy and prayers.

Entire raybe family.

http://ShareCG.com/v/46469/view/3D-and-2D-A
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: jasondude7116 on December 12, 2010, 10:51:22 pm
Lightspeed, this might sound stupid but I really think it has great value.

"Rejoice for those around you who transform into the Force. Mourn them do not. Miss them do not. "

Everyone who continues to influence us, continues to change the world.
Maybe you could share a story about her, so that we can be influenced also.

Peace to you my friend.
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: lightspeed on December 14, 2010, 07:48:09 am
today they will be buring my mother, i did not go to her funeral for several reasons it is very hard on me and i would rather remember her the way she was from our last visit and the many many phone conversations we had these past 4 years.
    jasondude7116  you talked about telling some stories about my mom, these are just a few memories of my mom ... she used to sew on her singer sewing machine she sewed her own curtains and hung them in the trailer house we used to live in when i was a kid , she would also draw pecocks with a large fan tail and praying hands on pillow cases with fabric pens , she worked in resturaunts as a cooks helper etc.  and she also raised us 6 kids by herself after she and my dad was divorced my dad only paid 100 dollars along time ago on child support at court and never paid a dime after that . she would go to the fire department that was giving out toys for kids to get us toys . she was a good mother , i am so very very greatful even though we didn't have the money to be able to see her as she was farther away that we called her every two or three days by using magic jack for 3 years and when we didn't have the money for a motel for all the days to see her and my brother and his wife wouldn't let us stay with them we stayed and slept in our van at walmart parking lot the last time in october for a week and had done that the previous year.
 my mom seen the rings that me and my wife had on they was just wal mart rings that said together forever my mom said she would like a ring like that so we checked but couldn't find the same ring we did find one that said "always in my heart " i guessed at her size at a 10 and luckily it was the right size and i placed it on her finger at the nursing home she was proud of the ring. she was a wonderful mother and me and my wife loved her so , we will miss hearing her voice , seeing her and telling her and hearing that she loved us . and she will always be in our heart . heaven gained a very special angel ......my mom.

here is the link for the guest book for my mom at the funeral home for anyone that wants to sign it.

http://www.wilsonmortuary.com/LethaWitte.html
Title: Re: my mom just passed away tonight 12-10-2010 6:00p.m.
Post by: lightspeed on December 14, 2010, 11:27:05 am
i want to thank everyone who signed the obituary book for my mom online i saw where many here signed it and we do appreciate it , we will be having a private memorial for her here at home starting 11:00 am central time , please say a prayer for my mom . again thanks everyone it good to have such nice friends.