i always found that concept intriguing, being debriefed, programmed, deprogramed, brainwashed, hypnotized.
all fancy names for a different perspective.
a well is just a well,
someone falls into the well...
it becomes the well of misfortune..
someone throws a quarter into that well...
it becomes a wishing well....
someone falls into the well and dies...
it becomes the well of death -dramatic string line-
its just a well, and each perspective renders a different channel.
what if i managed to convince you that your situation is so unique, you have the advantage of learning something first hand in a way that no one else can learn.
I want to send you to mars.
all expenses paid.
as a prison term.
as an adventure.
how do I deprogram your feelings about being sent to mars ?
you don't, you just approach it differently, I learned this from studying bruce lee, no 2 people are the same and there is no such thing as disadvantage, there is a matter of simply not capitalizing on your difference.
what if someone told you, I'll give you cancer, but it will be the last time anyone alive catches cancer.
is that a curse or a blessing ?
its the difference between having something, and something having you. who's the boss ?