tedathome, Thanks maybe it is related and that is why IE opened up on me numerous times ??
I tried to right click the task bar but it would not let me

as far as forced updates it is why my laptop does not go online anymore, I had updates turned off but yet I still received some.
I got really upset at microsoft on that one a while back when they forced updates and disabled the WiFi. Sadly I know microsoft or the government can override that

also Sad to know they still incorporate forced updates.
NIGE. Thanks

Malwarebytes seems to be a great program from what research I have done, since you last told me about it.
problem is I'm all out of funds atm, and the belt is getting even tighter by the day.
markofkane Good advise it is exactly what I did. I ran a deep scan that checked every file on both my hard drives. took 2.5 hours

nothing was found though, which is a good thing I hope

Remote assistance is one of the first things I disable. I feel it should
never have been built into a os, but that's only my opinion.
GT40 Thanks, I'm really thinking it was the updates. Maybe they conflicted Okozo Desktop for once I restarted my computer all was
fine, but I had to reset my Okozo Desktop wallpaper.
But sometimes (I mean everyday, lol), when I'm on some very "sensible" sites, the Ctrl+Alt+Del needs several minutes to act,
and sometimes I must reset the machine. Then all is ok again.
one is going to sites there not suppose to be going to lol
lightspeed, thanks for the advise. I did run a virus scan but I cannot go back to a earlier time using system restore,
for I have disabled it cause of my main hard drive is only a 40gig ssd and I could not move it to save the files to
my secondary drive. I do however have a system image of windows and some programs installed, but it would be a hassle to
re-image my computer and set it all back up. I was going to make another image before this but I procrastinated.
P.S i never had as much trouble as what you are saying though which seems to be a lot .
is your pc a factory or a built one?
I had issues similar due to updates before on vista, but not with windows 7
untill now. My computer is 99 % factory all is factory but the 40gig ssd and about 10 programs