OK.. apparently AOL wont provide this information.... and it is very difficult to get another service to provide a POP3 server ... but I did find one at bluebottle.com for free...
So I entered this information and ... wala... the program did not crash...
OK so far...
as to the second question on the "Internet Box" under General Options.. the program crashes everytime I try to either "create" or "set-up" MyWebHal account...
Any Ideas?