Mark,
I believe you still use a number of PSNs in your characters folder.
You have a designated PSN for each of 4 or 5 clothes (skins that are located in your Haptek skins folder.
The person you close Hal with is the person that Hal will open with, if you are using a designated PSN and designated Happy and Happyn haps and designated skin in the skins folder.
If you wish to add jewelry or change skins or hair or whatever, open the designated PSN, find the number of the designated happy and happyn haps and make the changes in those designated haps.
For example, Lorraine.PSN has within it 3 Normal emotions which correspond to happy3.hap and happyn3.hap
Within these two haps are listed the clothes (skin) of the individual and it is in the haptek skins folder.
So you already have some skins set up. List the jewelry and hair in the same manner as the skin is.
I see disadvantages in this setup but I think it will give you the results you want.
Remember the gal you close with, will be the gal Hal starts with, and with the attachments that you designated for that individual by her designated happy and happyn.
Any attachments you desire must be placed in the haptek skins folder.
One final note, unlike skins, to change hair the old hair must be removed when the new is put on.
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